Sage advice delivered elegantly

I am a huge fan of the writing of David Whyte. He writes very graceful poetry and has also produced a lovely book called ‘CONSOLATIONS: The Solace, Nourishment and Underlying Meaning of Everyday Words’ in which he takes words we all use, often without giving a great deal of thought to all the ‘humanness’ inherent in how we experience them. Read More »


But then Prince died ….

….. And there was nowhere left to hide. No more excuses. No more tomorrows.

He had left me on my own. He had “abandoned” me (this word, my counsellor’s suggestion. It hadn’t occurred to me, but the sobbing that followed its utterance confirmed he had hit home).

Prince would no longer tolerate me sitting on my own hands. He never did so himself. He used his multi-talented hands to create the music I have loved and clung to all of my life. He used those hands for …. well …. other things too (which any Prince fan would have to admit they have spent time thinking about at some point).Read More »

The New Adventure – My 40s

This blog could well have been called “August And Everything After” – after an album that meant a great deal to me in my early 20s and defined a certain time in my life – a time when I edged toward finding myself – and then (as a consequence of life-stuff) got diverted.

Also, August has been a very eventful month for me in years gone by. It was the month I somersaulted my first car into a field and could have killed myself and my two best friends; it was the month I fell off the Canadian Rockies and could have been eaten by bears. My mother vowed she was never letting me out of her sight in August again.

A few years ago I jumped off a mountain in Rio de Janeiro in August, (hang-glider and muscular Brazilian attached). Needless to say I did not tell my mother of my plans until after the event.

That was during my ‘Mid-Life Crisis’ or whatever you would choose to call the panicked build up to 40 for a childless, slightly confused girl who has lost her path somewhere along the way.

Anyway, the jump was incredible. The perfect end to one tremendous adventure. And now I am engaged in a new one. My 40s. The second half of my summer, another mountain to jump off.

In this blog I hope to share some of the things I have learned in the first half of my life, some of the challenges I have faced along the way, and what I have done with that (in case it is of use to anyone else). I would also love to share some of my new adventures as a 40 something woman and how I am endeavouring to make the most of this new adventure.

I think a good August may be on the way.


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